Ok today was my 1 year anniversary with my g/f. and i got her a psp and flowers and made her a cake and stuff?

and 2 weeks b4 she asked me what i wanted and i said nothin but i kinda did. so she finally got it out of me and i said a vince carter jersey. and she went to the mall and they didnt have it and today she didnt say anythin bout it but she did bring me brownies and a card. i loved it but i got her a psp. should i jusss let it go or how can i tell her bout it without tellin her u forgot to buy me the jersey.???? help me plz

Ok today was my 1 year anniversary with my g/f. and i got her a psp and flowers and made her a cake and stuff?
Do you want your girlfriend%26#039;s love or do you want a Jersey?





It sounds like you two have a lot going for you. She tried to find it--so she didn%26#039;t forget. Love is not about a %26quot;scorecard%26quot; (dollar for dollar). What did you want when you got her a PSP besides her happiness? Anything more than that takes away from the gift, doesn%26#039;t it? Give for the sake of giving, not for what you get in return.





Enjoy the brownies and the card. She sounds loving enough that I%26#039;ll bet one day the jersey shows up as a gift on another occasion. And if it doesn%26#039;t, and you still have her, does it really matter?
Reply:Ugh. She thought of you! Isn%26#039;t that enough? It%26#039;s wonderful that you went all out, and I%26#039;m sure she appreciates it. You need to return the favor. The gift loses meaning, if you give it hoping for something in return. She tried to get you what you wanted, she still made brownies and got you a card, what more do you want from the girl? Maybe some cash would prove she loves you better?
Reply:Just let it go, you are not suppost to give gifts to receive them, so just be happy with what you got. She could of just left you with nothing.
Reply:just ignore it its not her fault its the stores besides isnt she enough?
Reply:Let it go or brace yourself for a huge fight. Girls are supposed to get better presents. That%26#039;s how you keep us happy and if we are happy then you get to be happy too.
Reply:Gifts should be from the heart, not to appease material desires. The brownies and card were an appropriate gesture from your girlfriend because they appear to be heartfelt. As for the PSP, you can either blow it off or ask for it back and return it. The best choice would be to let it go and remember not to make the same (expensive) decision twice.
Reply:nice question. personally, if you pamper a girl too much and let her know that you need her, she wouldn%26#039;t respect you as much. that%26#039;s how a girl works. the more you push, the more they%26#039;ll just pull away. to me, it looks like you are the weaker link in the relationship. i hope you see the honesty in my reply rather than criticism. about the jersey... i wouldn%26#039;t say it directly in a teenage relationship...use your cunning to achieve your goal, that%26#039;s why your wit is there, to use. good luck



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